Goodmeat: IT'S NOT SPELT WEIFUN!!!! ARGH!!! THE TRAVESTY OF IT!!!
Who bought the 8 Days with the Fantastic Four on the cover?
If you did, flip to the inside back cover, where there's an ad for Essence, a laundry detergent.
The ad shows, supposedly, a day in the life of a woman.
9am: Office. Woman is dressed in office wear, carrying a briefcase
1pm: Shopping. Woman is wearing black dress and carrying bags of shopping.
6pm: Yoga class. Here's where the layout gets a bit conky. A woman in a meditative lotus-whatever pose is meditating at the bottom of the picture.
10pm: Beauty sleep. And the woman is wearing a slinky bright red dress?
Here's why.
At 8pm, it's Dinner date with Ken.
And the corresponding picture has her dressed in a blue and white striped bra and panty set.
Now if that's what she's wearing for her dinner date with the guy, I really wonder what it is they'll be eating for dinner......... (^^!)
We now return to normal blogging...............
On Friday night, the gals decided there wasn't anything chronically wrong with the DF when it came to relationships. *phew*
His only problem is that he's dumb. *huh?*
Let's post a question here to those who read my blog and who do not know me in real life.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend hardly calls you out. Doesn't call you on the phone to talk. Doesn't meet up unless you call him, except for some exceptions. Doesn't call you sweet nothings.
Is he a bad boyfriend?
He doesn't smoke. He doesn't drink or club. [which in my case, could constitute something of a slight disadvantage] He doesn't ogle other girls. He's a well-mannered, decent guy.
Except that he's not except a diehard romantic here. (^^!) Whoever coined the term 'stocism' certainly had him in mind.
So is he a bad boyfriend?
Ok, 'bad' is too strong a word.
Can we say that this guy 'cannot make it'?
Or is it that he doesn't know how to behave in a relationship, having never been in one?
Or is it now that he's gotten the goods, he doesn't need to put in the effort to keep the relationship going?
Or is he just, as Candle put it, just plain dumb? (^^!)
Personally, I'm inclined to go with the last one. :p
When I met up with him last night, I was talking to him about it, and what my friends said.
He says guys are just like that, and that all his friends are like that.
I said, not the guys my girlfriends know, apparently, and just how large is your sample size of friends anyway?
He admitted that it was one attached guy who acted like that towards his girlfriend, and that most of his other friends were single. *duh* To which I replied, there's a lesson for you here. (^^!)
Hmph. Hmph hmph hmph.
On the bright side though, if you were one of those who said that he just doesn't know how to behave in a relationship, I can only say, he and I, we're both learning.
And yea, he's learning. >)
1 comment:
"He doesn't smoke. He doesn't drink or club. [which in my case, could constitute something of a slight disadvantage] He doesn't ogle other girls. He's a well-mannered, decent guy."
I think that does not really define a good bf. It only defines a good gentleman.
But good gentleman is not equal good bf.
Ger.. i think u need to think about what u want.
There is a lot of guys who don't smoke and don't smoke and don't olge on other girls.
He is not treating u with respect. To me, I feel that he is just self-centrered.
Maybe u can start finding around other guys... There are better guys out there who don't smoke, don't drink, don't look at other girls and yet, informative and read a lot.
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